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SHUI LOVE |
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Love is an emotion
all of us have experienced at some time or the other. Countless
songs, movies, poetry and art are dedicated to this powerful emotion.
Many heroes and kingdoms rose and fell in the name of love.
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Here are some
Feng Shui guidelines to activate your love and romance luck and
to enhance your relationships.....
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 If you
are single or looking to improve your relationship, sleep with
your head pointed in your Nien-Yen (Relationships) direction according
to your Gua number. To find your Gua number, use the formula below. |
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Formula for Calculating Your Gua Number Add the last 2 digits of
your Chinese year of birth based on the lunar calendar. If the sum
is higher than 10, reduce to a single digit. For men, deduct this
number from 10. For women, add this number to 5. If you get a 2
digit number, keep adding until you reduce it to a single digit.
The result is your
Gua Number.
E.g. Birth year 1986, 8 + 6 = 14, then 1 + 4 = 5. For males 10 -
5 = 5 (Gua).
For females, 5 + 5 = 10, then 1 + 0 = 1 (Gua).
Once you know your Gua number, refer to the following table to discover
where your personal love mansion or nien yen is located. |
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GUA NUMBER NIEN YEN LOCATION
1 (east group) South
2 (west group) Northwest
3 (east group) Southeast
4 (east group) East
5 (west group) Northwest (for Males); West (for Females)
6 (west group) Southwest
7 (west group) Northeast
8 (west group) West
9 (east group) North |
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Strengthen the Southwest section of your home. According to the
Feng Shui thought of Eight Life Aspirations, the Southwest section
governs romance and marriage happiness. The element of Southwest
is Earth. Activate that section with a pleasant decoration of
small rocks or anything made from terra cotta or clay. Alternately,
hang a picture of a mountain minus any water feature. Watch out
for any poison arrows brought by the edges of pillars of furniture
in your bedroom. These poison arrows bring harmful 'sha chi' and
will affect you, therefore affecting your relationship as well.
Cover the
offending edges with a soft cloth or a potted plant.
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If you are single and looking for love - hang a painting of peonies,
the Chinese flower of love in your house or bedroom. Also, balance
the Yin and Yang in your house. If you are male, display items or
photos that represent the presence of females/Yin. If you are female,
some images or displays that shows males/Yang will be beneficial.
Also, be mindful of the bedroom environment and the sleeping taboos
associated with it..... |
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AVOID SLEEPING with a mirror facing the bed directly - televisions,
vanities, computers, mirrors - cover them with a piece of cloth
when not in use. A mirror on the ceiling? Exotic, but not advisable.
Besides wrecking relationships, the water element in the mirror
attacks the heart, which is a fire element. This will bring about
heart-related problems. |
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AVOID SLEEPING with a water feature behind the bed - A water element
in the bedroom is not a good proposal. A painting or print of water-affiliated
features such as waterfalls and lakes is bad enough, let alone the
real thing in the form of aquariums and water-filled vases. |
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AVOID SLEEPING on a waterbed - In this aspect, discard any romantic
notions about sleeping on a waterbed. The element and stagnant
water could cause urinary or bladder problems. Not very romantic
now, is it?
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TRY NOT TO SLEEP under an exposed overhead beam - Artistic designers
love this feature but it is a disastrous aspect in Feng Shui.
The negative 'chi' from the beam will attack whichever part it
crosses the bed. For example, if the beam crosses above the head,
then the person will experience frequent headaches and stress.
If your bedroom has such a beam, either move your bed to other
places or try to mask it with a false ceiling.
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NEVER SLEEP with a sharp edge of a protruding corner pointed at
you - Many modern bedrooms have problems of corners jutting out,
resulting in fatal poison arrows ('sha chi'). The 'sha chi' will
bring lots of health problems. To remedy this error, camouflage
the offending corner with a piece of furniture. |
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AVOID SLEEPING facing the door as the 'sha chi' (killing breath)
will be very strong and will cause problems in your relationship. |
